AFA SG 2013

Sunday, November 10, 2013
Secret War Journal[10 November 2013][Long Post][Photo-Heavy]
A little background to get our readers to be on the same page as us. AFA is short for Anime Festival (ASIA). AFA is a series of conventions mainly held in Singapore designed to promote the Japanese culture. What sets it apart from other anime conventions is the scale of operations and the crowd it attracts. AFA is without a doubt, the anime convention that boast the highest number of people attending the convention. Personally, I feel that if you are ever invited to such activities, you should definitely go for the annual AFA.

Before AFA 2013, I think I had only attended AFA once (See my post here). This year, armed with a steady income, I was invited to attend AFA. This year, armed with a steady income, I was invited to attend AFA. Seizing upon the opportunity, I accepted the invitation. However, it should be noted that I did hesitate for a moment if I should purchase the tickets for the concert.

Jie Sheng was the first person to ask if I was interested in the early bird package. The early bird package consists of entrance pass for the full duration of the convention, stage pass and VIP seats for the I <3 Anisong concert. The early bird package is considered to be a good deal if you are planning to attend the convention for the full 3 days. As an added bonus, the package would include props that you might use during the concert, such as light sticks. The reason why I did not agree to get the package right away is due to the fact that I could not confirm if I was available on the 8th of November as it was a Friday. As I am now in the army, my schedule is not completely in my control. Thus, while I was sure I should be able to attend for the 9th November since it is a Saturday, I could not fully commit to the event. As a result, Jie Sheng bought the early bird package alone. (I feel bad but it could not be helped.)

The next group who asked was Johnston, Meldon, and Qi Xiang. They heard about the early bird package from me. With similar commitments, apart from Johnston, we all missed the early bird package. For Johnston, he had trouble attending the event as his examinations would be near the corners. Despite all this, we each tried several means and compromises to attend the event. For my side, I was constantly looking out for opportunities to apply for the period of the convention. Qi Xiang and Meldon each managed to make themselves available on the days to attend for the convention. Johnston, on the other hand, studied extra hard in advance to squeeze out a day to go for the event. As luck would have it, I was able to attend for the whole duration of the event.

If the above paragraph was any indication, we decided to only attend the convention for only one day, on the 9th. Instead of getting the early bird package, we are only buying the entrance and stage pass for a day. In addition, we are purchasing a Cat 3 ticket for the concert on that day. The rationale for compromising as such was because we felt that was not much of a point buying a 3-day entrance pass as the exhibition would largely be the same through the period.

Suntec Convention Centre
The venue of the convention this year was at Suntec Convention Centre. The convention centre had been under renovation for some time. In fact, this year was the first time I went to the newly renovated place. I remembered feeling kinda lost, entering the place despite managing to reach the destination with the aid of signboards.

Accompanying us are my Junior College classmates, Timothy and Leon. They did not buy the concert tickets but they wanted to see what was the convention like. Despite buying the early bird package, Jie Sheng did not join us for the morning as he was exhausted from the concert the night before. Furthermore, he had already visited the exhibitions. Thus, he would only join us in the afternoon to prepare for tonight's concert.

In a twist of event, we realised that we only purchased the concert tickets online but did not buy the entrance pass tickets. Thinking back, since it was already day 2, maybe there was not much point in buying the entrance and stage pass. Now, why did I say that?

Booths, booths, booths?!

View from the first floor. 
Need tickets to enter the exhibitors on the second floor. :)
The sight of queuing up for the entrance pass was truly a sight to behold. It has been some time since I saw such a long queue which twists and turns so numerous times, enough to fill a floor. While the scene was intimidating, the queue moves surprisingly fast. Within minutes, we are in the convention hall.





From Left: Johnston, Qi Xiang, Timothy, Leon
The queue is moving very fast! It is already clearing up!
Bandai Booth. You would find Gundam models here.
Shingeki no Kyojin fans would know what is this. Hahas.
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Gundam Models

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Pass the large Gundam models on display, you would be presented with a showcase of figurines from various animes.

Angel Beats!


Hatsune Miku & Vocaloids




Madoka




Accel World Universe


Fate Universe


Stein's Gate Universe



To aru Index


Code Geas



Others
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Past the figurines galore, there are also posters on display, some are for sale. Do note some are fan-made. 

Notice that those posters on display on the wall are meant to be free gifts for buying from the booths.
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One thing that was worth mentioning would be the long queues at certain booths, notably those selling anime merchandise. At those booths, it is not uncommon to see a queue snaking around the booth. To combat the crowd, these booths are designed such that they have only one entrance and one exit. In this way, the shopkeepers are able to control the number of people entering their booths. By controlling the inflow of the customers, it helps to prevent the customers who are inside the booth from feeling being squeezed by the crowd. This helps to improve the shopping experience of the customers.

Entering the booths, we quickly realised that most of the goods in demand were already sold out. Apparently, it is common for the merchandise to be out of stock within hours of opening on the first day of the convention. Bear in mind that we attended the convention on the second day. Yet, the queue is still considerably long, as the shoppers want to grab whatever is left. Not wanting to hinder them, we simply browsed through and continued exploring the rest of the exhibition hall.

Stage Performances

The second aspect of the convention would be the performances at the main stage. These performances are showcased at a stipulated timing and require a stage pass to enter. After visiting some of the main stage events, I would say that unless you understand spoken Japanese, I would not recommend you to buy the stage pass. Yes, there is a translator on-site who will help to translate what was spoken to English. However, in doing so, it disrupts the flow of the dialogue and much of the essence of the discussion is lost in the process. While there are song performances, interviews are more common at the main stage. Thus, if you are coming to listen to songs or band performances, you should save the money and buy yourself a concert ticket instead. (It is more worth it, trust me.)

Below is a song performed by Azusa TADOKORO, enjoy. :)

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Mini Stage
These performances are not performed at the main stage. Rather, they can be found at the booths. They have a timetable too though you would have to go to their booths to find out.


This was the theme song of the AFA this year, Origami. The singer is Valerie who is a Singaporean. She was scouted in 2010 at the AFA's maid cafe. She was a member of the now-defunct anisong idol group, Sea*A. After the disbanding of Sea*A, Valerie continues as a solo act, as part of the Asian Pop Collective, based in Singapore. Currently, she is a regular emcee for AFA's official youtube channel, "WOW JAPAN".

Cosplay Fest

Of course, we should not forget another attraction of the convention - Cosplays! Not an advertised feature in the convention itself, in that the organisers do not hire cosplayers. (I hope? They do invite famous cosplayers to grace the event though.) Somehow, everyone just took the opportunity to cosplay for the convention and it has been the tradition since. The good thing about is that you do not need to own an entrance pass to have access to the cosplayers. (Save the renowned guest cosplayers, of course.) Most of the cosplayers can be found along the hallways, outside the exhibition halls.

 

I <3 Anisong

Night soon befall upon us. As this was the first time we were attending the concert, we were caught off guard by how early the others went to gather at the main stage entrance. We were alerted by Jie Sheng who asked if we were at the gathering area. Alarmed, we rushed for dinner and bolted for the concert hall entrance. Fortunately, it all went well as we managed to secure the front rows for Cat 3.

So many people, so early.
While I was worried that being at the furthest position, (being Cat 3) would affect the concert experience, my fears were quickly dispelled when the concert started. Though I was unable to look at the singers up close (privilege of Cat 1), the screens did help to give us a clear yet close view of the stage. One benefit of being at the front row of Cat 3 was that we can look over the crows and be able to view the stage. I am not sure how is it like at other areas where everyone is standing up too, obscuring your with human heads at every side.

Singers for Saturday Concert:
  1. Eir Aoi
  2. LiSA
  3. Milky Holmes (Suzuko Mimori, Sora Tokui, Mikoi Sasaki and Izumi Kitta,)
  4. May'n
The singers were all great but if I had to choose. I would say I enjoyed LiSA's performances the most. Her segment was the most engaging and interactive. She came up with a simple dance gesture for us to follow along as she sings. I found that very interesting and I had a lot of fun during her segment.

Being in a Japanese concert for the first time, I really could feel the energy from their fans from Cat 1 and 2. All their cheers and waving of the light sticks to the rhythm was really energising. So this is what a concert feels like, hahas.

After the concert, we were exhausted but we really enjoyed ourselves. In fact, we are tempted to attend next year's concert. :P 

    tl;dr: AFA 13, booths were average, concert is to die for.

    X-encounter

    Friday, November 8, 2013
    Secret War Journal[November 2013]
    I can't set flight from here
    Just looking at your profile won't help
    I could lament my powerlessness
    But that's not a tactic anyone would recommend

    Birds that have forgotten how to fly
    Cry their hearts out in regret

    There is something I desire
    From this cold, inhumane world
    But that's not all there is to it
    There's a certain hope already welling inside of me

    What am I capable of?
    I won't find out until I give it a shot
    I sprint towards the start line
    I'm sure this is how it was meant to be
    So I spread my wings and kick off the ground hard
    And take off to where you are
    Here comes the ravens

    Fight! Keep holding on!
    We'll come together in the middle of a thousand loops
    Right here on this place
    My destiny can no longer be stopped
    No how little
    I can actually do

    Whatever you may be burdened with
    I hope to be able to share your pain
    Until that day, I'll stay by your side
    Now's the time to fly, ravens.



    Raven by *theDURRRRIAN on deviantART

    Introversion

    Friday, October 18, 2013
    Secret War Journal[18 October 2013]
    As someone who works with people all the time, you’d think I’d be an extrovert. I’m friendly. I’m not shy. But when I get close to my “people time” limit, it’s time to shut down, be quiet and hole up with a good book. I love helping people, but there’s a huge reason that I balance that type of work with work where I get to be quiet and dive in to working with words instead of being bombarded with interaction.

    It’s because—although I don’t fall into some of the old stereotypes—I’m an introvert.

    I spent years feeling guilty if I wanted to spend time alone instead of doing things with friends. I learned to make the best of it, and often pushed myself to be social—even when it felt exhausting. Many people do this, as extroversion tends to be prized in our society, while introversion is seen as a “second-class personality trait, somewhere between a disappointment and a pathology.” It is none of those things. It’s the way an estimated two-thirds to one-half of us are wired, and it can be our greatest asset.

    As I mentioned, being introverted isn’t the same thing as being shy (though there’s nothing wrong with being shy either). Many shy people are also introverted, but one doesn’t really have much to do with the other. The best explanation I was ever given (and maybe one of the biggest “aha!” moments of my adult life) was that while extroverts are energized by connecting and spending time with others, introverts need inward-focused, alone time to recharge.

    Being introverted has nothing to do with lack of confidence. Many confident people are introverted, and gather their strength from the time they spend alone rather than from the input of others. In some ways, I believe that the ability to enjoy being by yourself says a great deal about your confidence.
    It isn’t that introverts don’t like social time—it’s that for us, social time is giving out energy rather than receiving energy.

    A lot of us fall somewhere in the middle between the two, and some interactions take more out of people than others.

    A few things to consider if someone you care about falls more on the introverted end of the spectrum:

    1. Think of each of us as having a cup of energy available.

    For introverts, most social interactions take a little out of that cup instead of filling it the way it does for extroverts. Most of us like it. We’re happy to give and love to see you. When the cup is empty, though, we need some time to refuel. We aren’t mad. We don’t stop caring about you. We’ll be so happy to see you and talk to you again when we’ve had some time to decompress.

    2. Silence isn’t a bad thing.

    Really. It’s not an insult. It’s the introvert’s way of conserving energy and restoring him or herself. If we can be quiet with you (and you can be content being quiet with us) it’s a huge compliment and a huge relief. Other times the quiet really does need to be spent alone. We come back when we’re ready. It’s worth the wait.

    3. Just because someone is friendly, she isn’t necessarily an extrovert; just because someone is quiet doesn’t mean he’s an introvert.

    If you pay attention to people you care about, often you can see what energizes them and what drains them. If you aren’t sure, ask. If you notice a friend seems wiped out, ask if spending time together sounds like fun or if they’d like some down time. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve become almost giddy because plans were cancelled—even with people I love. When you know someone needs some space in order to re-energize, be respectful and give it to them. It isn’t rejection.

    4. Text. Write letters. Email. We love it.

    There are times that you can’t beat a face to face conversation, I’d agree 100%. But for introverts, sometimes being able to stay connected and stay in touch in a less intense and less draining way is a huge help. Being in crowds is tough. Even long conversations can be tough if we’re already “peopled out.” Having the freedom to respond when we are ready is a great feeling. Sometimes, it’s right away. If it’s not, don’t be offended. (It’s not you…it’s me. Really!)

    5. All of this really comes down to respect.

    Each of us has our own set of boundaries, our own way of communicating and our own needs. When you care about someone, you choose to communicate with him or her in ways that show you love and respect them. If your cup is filled by lots of interaction with others, go for it! Be in tune with your own needs, and enjoy the way that time with others energizes you. If someone you love is an introvert, and needs time to him or herself, tune into and respect that as well. We don’t do activities alone because we are sad, or negative or depressed; we do it because that’s what fills our cup back up. We’ll be even happier to see you when we come back.
    One of the best things I’ve read on the subject was the book Quiet: The Power of Introverts by Susan Cain. The shorter 12-question quiz on her site can give you some good insights into your own personal introversion or extroversion that bypasses some of those long held stereotypes (P.S. I’m 12 for 12).

    -  By Kate Bartolotta

    Source: Thought Catalog

    Magneta Nano

    Monday, October 7, 2013
    Secret War Journal[October 2013]



    Got addicted to this song recently. Enjoy!

    Gravity

    Sunday, October 6, 2013
    Secret War Journal[6 November 2013][Spoiler Alert]
    Formal Review Background

    Winning the "Future Film Festival Digital Award" at the Venice Film Festival, this film visualises what happens if there were to be a man-made catastrophe in space.

    The film excels on the heavy use of visual effects to depict the various scenes enacted in the film.

    Personal Thoughts
    I have no idea why this is categorised as a sci-fic thriller. I was certainly not in any way thrilled by the execution of the movie. There was little suspense, little tension and little excitement from the scenes.

    I blame it on the way the scenes are played out. Watching the trailer before the screening made matters worse. The trailer shows you how the story would develop, throwing the suspension right out of the window. Most of the time, I had gripes with the pacing of the show because the film goes in circles to get to the point. We all know the satellite is going to be destroyed by the debris. Get on with it. All this adds to the frustration of trying to 'will' the movie to advance with the plot instead of watching the character drifting in space. While I may acknowledge that it is to highlight to the audience that this is space and when you are lost, you simply drift, but it was done too repetitively. Simply said, it was too much and too long.

    The plot twists from the various obstacles she faced along her way to escape was quite a let-down, especially when you knew the length of the film. There was no way the main character would escape without a problem since we have like 60 minutes remaining?

    I was kind of disappointed that the male lead was killed, however imminent it was. I dislike shows with only one character on screen but I must admit such a plot device helps to improve the realism of the show (which it excels in).

    There was a heart attack moment on the audience when nearing the end of the film, all the signs seems to point towards the female character giving up and tries to commit suicide. As my best friend likes to put it, "If she dies, the theater owes me a movie ticket." While this was done to emulate how an actual person would do when all hope is seemingly gone, it is not appropriate in a thriller. What this scene only serves to frustrate the audience who already cannot wait for the conclusion. Instead of creating suspense (from what? What happens after she dies?), tension (tension from who? No one else is alive...), excitement (what's there left when she just wants to ends her life), what is left is disappointment.

    Thus I was kinda glad and relieved when she decides not to instead. How she got the brainwave to escape was cliché but bearable.

    Overall, I would not recommend watching this. Unless you are an emotional person who likes to empathise with the characters, you should not be watching this. I would not even recommend this to CGI fans. While there may be various eye candy on the effects (as realistic as they may), I believe there are better films out there with as good effects and better plot.

    STGCC 2013

    Sunday, September 1, 2013
    Secret War Journal[31 August - 1 September 2013]
    This was truly an impromptu event. We did not plan for this outing in the slightest bit.

    Elusyf
    It all began with a trip to meet up with Jia Ying, a fellow committee member of Ignite! to discuss a potential business venture. Johnston tagged along to listen and provide feedback.

    Before we attended the business idea presentation per se, we did some catching up since we last met up. (Before our graduation?)

    A little bit of background for Jia Ying, she is now an undergraduate pursuing Psychology. Chancing upon a opportunity to work part-time while studying, she is sharing to her friends about it.

    Frankly, the business model of Elusyf is decent but I was a bit disappointed because I was expecting something else. I went to the venue expecting something of a smaller scale to start with. Unfortunately, I instead encountered a model that I was familiar with (and one that I should embrace with caution at that too).

    Thus, reaching to the same decision as Debbie, I tagged along with Johnston to Sands Expo & Convention Center to attend the Singapore Toy, Game & Comic Convention.

    Photos, photos, photos!
    Due to the enormous amount pictures we took during the span of 2 days, I will give you the link to the whole album here to prevent me spamming (and lagging your internet browser) you with pictures. Enjoy!
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    Aza, Korean Cosplayer
    One of the star cosplayers that graced the event was Aza from South Korea. You can click on the below link to her page where her photos are being uploaded in.


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    Vampy, American Cosplayer
    Another cosplayer that graced the event, she is from the United States. The link is as follows: https://www.facebook.com/pages/VAMPY-BIT-ME/370120112710

    One of the notable games that were showcased was Disney's Infinity.
    This game, (do not quote me because even until now. I am not very sure what this game is about), seems to be quite similar to Mindcraft. In this game, the player decides the rules and the gameplay. That means you, as the player can do whatever you want. It is like a sandbox game, only weirder. I had a lot of difficulty trying to play this game as I was too used to having a clear objective to achieve in a game. (I think my imagination skills are not as good as before, huh?)

    What sets this game apart from the likes of Minecraft is that Disney incorporates the element of collectibles into the game. To be able to use the character, you would first need to own a specific figurine meant for the game.  For example, if you would like to use Mickey Mouse, you need to have the Mickey Mouse figurine. To activate the character in the game, you would need to place the figurine on a detector (which I presume uses NFC technology to identify the figurine). This idea may sound cool to onlookers but it makes this game really costly. Hence, it is unlikely I would ever buy such a game.

    You can read Gamespot's review here.

    Looking ahead
    After this event, we are setting our sights on AFA SG 2013 on 7-9 November 2013.

    I am considering buying a 1 <3 AniSong concert ticket for the first time. If I buy it, it should be on the 8 Nov. Are you going too? :)

    Official Website - http://www.animefestival.asia/afa13/

    Nico Nico Chorus

    Wednesday, July 24, 2013
    Secret War Journal[July 2013]
    Hey readers! How are you guys doing?

    A new chapter of my life just started this Monday. I will be even busier, if that was even possible. While I struggle to write finish my post, allow me to share with you a music interest of mine.

    As some of you might know, vocaloids are all the rage in Japan. While I do listen to songs from Hatsune Miku, I enjoy the covers made by a group of people as well. Collectively, we call them the Nico Nico Chorus. This month, I went to check out some of the songs made by these groups of singers. Enjoy!







    "If music be the food of love, play on." - William Shakespeare

    The Liar in Your Life

    Sunday, July 21, 2013
    Secret War Journal[July 2013][Long Post]
    Recently, I picked up this book in in the library as a form of self-help during my time in camp.

    Synopsis:
    Author: Robert Feldman
    Language: English
    ISBN-10: 0753515652

    The Liar in Your Life describes the surprising and sobering reality of lying in everyday life, based on nearly three decades of research by author Robert Feldman. One of his most striking findings, that has been tested repeatedly, is that new acquaintances will lie to each other about three times in the course of a ten minute conversation. These may seem to be so-called "little white lies"—innocent evasions like "I feel fine" or "I like your dress" or "You were amazing"—but those lies exact a cost. When we know we’re being dishonest, we feel less trusting about our environment and the people around us. And those little lies create a climate for greater deceptions, leading to "a culture of lies" that pervades today’s society.

    - Cited from http://www.robertfeldman.org/

    "Because anyone who says they always tell the truth is a liar"

    I remembered the initial reactions of my colleagues in the camp. They were commenting that I was being self-conscious, leading me to read this book. Here is where the assumptions of what this book is about and what it is really about are different. If you had read the synopsis carefully,you would realise that it is slightly different from what you would had imagined from just looking at the book cover. Recall that the book's author is a Professor of Psychology at the University of Massachusetts, Amherst and that this book serves to explore the rationale behind lying and why we readily accept those lies. Of course, this would involve lies told by ourselves and it also involves strategies on leading a more honest life. (I seem to recall my goal to cut down on lies back in secondary school. Hahas!)

    As you probably figured it out by now, me being self-conscious is not completely off. However, the main motivation for picking up this book was to confirm some of my suspicions about deception. After all, since young, I was fascinated by human behaviours. This book will help me to confirm if certain human behaviour are influenced by the use of deception.

    Not disappointing me, the book explored many theories and models. First which would be the...

    [Disclaimer: I will write briefly on the ideas covered in the book. For more elaborate, and accurate, description, please read the book itself.]

    The Liar Advantage
    Before we go into the 'why', perhaps we should first discuss about the 'how'. The book gave very compelling evidence on our inability to prevent lies.
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    Truth Detection
    At some point, most of us will feel confident that we would be able to tell when someone is lying. Unfortunately, unknown to us, our truth detection skills are not that great after all. A study by Ekman found that most trained and experienced lie-catchers did not do better than flipping a coin to guess if the person was lying. That is worrying because these are the people you would expect to be professional in detecting deception. If they are not very successful in detecting liars, where does that leaves us? If our lack of skills is not enough, liars have others up their sleeves to ensure their lies go undetected.
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    Averted Gaze
    Perhaps the most useful tool in the arsenal of liars would be the myth that liars often has a 'tell' when they are lying. This could be in the form of the infamous 'Avert Gaze' or the involuntary touching of the face.

    While it is agreed that some liars subconsciously do exhibit such behaviour, one should take note not to generalise this observation to each and every potential person telling a lie. In fact, the book suggests that liars actually make use of this myth against us.

    An experienced liar would be aware of his 'tell' when he is lying. Armed with this knowledge, he would make a conscious effort to mask the 'tell'. For example, knowing that common folks believe that avoid eye contact is an indication of lying, the liar will make sure that he makes eye contact with the victim to not rouse suspicions. In addition, if he has a habit of touching his left ear when he is lying, he would make sure that his hands are by his side at all times. It would take effort but it would not draw the suspicion of the victim. The victim, not noticing any 'tell', believes that the liar is not lying.
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    Truth Bias
    If this was not bad enough, studies suggests that humans may have a truth bias ingrained in our brains. What this truth bias does is to cause us to have a tendency to trust another person without question. Being social creatures, we tend to trust someone we just met than to distrust him. That is the reason why it is so easy to lie to someone without getting caught. In fact, most of us would accept what a stranger claims. How many of us would wonder if there was really a discount at the nearby supermarket when your friend took you about it?

    Researchers believe that the reason that we have such a truth bias could be attributed to the fact that we are inherently cognitive misers. This means that we tend to go on "energy saving" mode. Rather than think hard on every piece of information presented to us, our brain goes lazy on us and just declare that the source is trustworthy and does not bother to utilise mental power on it. This causes us to simply accept the information as truth. Hence, resulting in the truth bias.
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    Willing Accomplice
    To make matters worse, sometimes we are lied to but we do not detect the lie because we do not wish to believe it is, in fact, a lie. This is not to be confused with self-deception. In this case, you are not the liar. Rather, you are what researchers call "the Willing Accomplice". You may think that this does not make sense, why would we help the liar? The fact remains that, as humans, we are socially insecure. Thus, when someone compliment us, we would want to believe it to be true. Hence, we choose to turn a blind eye to the possibility of a lie subconsciously, allowing ourselves to be lied to. This makes us the willing accomplice to the act. (Ask yourself, did you ever doubt your uncle saying you are pretty?)

    All these factors made lie detection very difficult. Their ability and our inability work hand in hand to make each lie go unseen.

    Roots of Deception
    The book then went on to explain the possible motivations behind lying.
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    Upbringing
    It is believed that our personal upbringing plays a role in our frequency of lying. How many of us never ever lied in our entire life? Studies have shown that children may lie as early as at the age of 3. (Shocking, yes) This is observed when an experiment was conducted with the subject being placed in a room fitted with one-way windows. The child is then instructed by an adult to not touch the toy placed on a table in the room. After giving the instructions, the adult would leave the room. Left alone, the child is likely to touch the toy out of curiosity. Later, the child is asked if he had touched the toy during the adult's absence. Through repeated experiments, it is found that most children would lie that they did not. What the experiment imply is that either we are designed to lie in our blood or the environment in which our children grew up in encourages deception.

    This should come as no surprise as the parents themselves lie. Despite our best efforts as parents to not lie in front of our children, it is inevitable for such a situation to occur. Over time, the child will learn from the social interactions between adults and pick up the skills required to lie during social interactions.
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    Lies of Convenience
    The idea that evolution enabled us to use deception as a means of socialising is not as shocking as initially thought. Certain lies help to drive the conversation forward. Sometimes we lie in agreement to a question so that the conversation would not come to a halt to explain an idea. For example, during a conversation with your friends, he was sharing about his experience during his vacation in Australia. He continued to talk about his time in Mornington and he paused. He asked, "You know where is Mornington right?" Instinctively, most would reply yes even though he might not have the slightest clue where in Australia is that. (Do not laugh, I had seen such things happening when I probe further.) These are the lies we make without so much as battling an eyelid but it drives the point - Lies are everywhere. Lies are a part of what makes us human. Without it, we cannot function effectively as social beings in society. We coin such forms of lying as Lies of Convenience.
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    Self-Deception
    Another form that we are all more familiar with would be self-deception

    I am sure that at some point of time, you would had intentionally or unintentionally lied to yourself. Whether it was to boost our self-esteem or protect our fragile mind from breaking apart, whatever the reasons, it is likely that we are guilty of it. It could be as harmless as believing that you had already arrived at the answer before your friends revealed it.
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    Cosmetic Lies
    A similar form would be cosmetic lies - lies which we make to make ourselves feel good. While self-deception is applied on ourselves where people would not be able to know you are actually doing it, cosmetic lies are told to a victim. A famous example would be a resume. There are people who place fictitious but outstanding credentials in their resume to land a job. The liar presents a better image of himself to others by fabricating certain achievements. This is the act of cosmetic lying. That said, adding false information in one's resume may be an extreme case. Cosmetic lies can be found in everyday conversations. Suppose you were in a conversation with your friend. He was boasting how he had found an insect with the size of his index finger. Not wanting to be outdone by him, you may had lied that you had seen insects the size of your palm. (Sometimes, you wonder if our ego is too big for comfort. Hahas.)
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    Lies with Intent
    Ah, this might had been the reason that you had picked up the book in the first place. This form of lies are the most notorious lies, in that, these are the lies that made it to the news. While most of us may be unaware of other forms of lies, we would be most familiar with this.
    Malicious lies are grouped with this form of lies. In this case,  liars use deception on their victims to profit from it. Take the case of a simple scam. You are walking along the streets and a lady approached you. She claims to be doing a donation drive for the physically disabled. Due to the fact that we are such cognitive misers, we thought it was an ordinary flag day. As such, we donated without much thought. Little did you know that you had just 'donated' to a non-existent charity foundation.
    Of course, there are worse lies being carried out. Be it ponzi scams or frauds, we often heard about it.
    --
    Media-manufactured Lies
    While the other forms of lies have been around us for time eternal since we started to socialise, deception have also evolved to involve the media.
    Advertisements are a heavy user of such tactics. By portraying how we should look, defining beauty, it deceives the audience that they need to purchase certain products to look good. Effectively, it takes advantage of our insecurity.
    One good example found in the book was how the media was used during 2008 Olympic Opening Ceremony in Beijing. Apparently, the fireworks shown on television were not real. It was the work by the media[1].In addition, it was later discovered that the little girl, Lin Miaoke who sang "Ode to the Motherland" during the opening ceremony was actually just lip-syncing. The real singer was another girl named Yang Peiyi. Imagine the uproar then. (This despite it being written in the programme notes)
    Lip-syncing is actually a common practice but the audience still cannot help but feel cheated when they find out[2].
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    Web of Deceit
    Finally, a relatively new form of deception takes place in the worldwide web. One fault of us is that we tend to accept anything found on the Internet as credible (which is not true!) This is what makes such deception so widespread. Write a story and the audience will believe it to be true.

    Conclusion
    If you are interested in the workings of the various means of deception and the motivations behind it, do pick up this book. I hope I had piqued your interest in this book. :)

    What becoming adult means

    Tuesday, June 18, 2013
    Secret War Journal[17 June 2013]
    First and foremost, I would like thank all those who remembered my birthday.
    It is so bright outside. I am jealous.

    I am so glad that I was allowed to take leave for the week which my birthday falls on.

    As I had mentioned many times already, June is not a happy month for me (mostly). I am not going to say out why here. Perhaps I had mentioned it some years back but I have no intention to repeat it. Sorry.

    Although it is the holiday season now, I was informed of my leave a little late. Not many people could take leave today. I would be a little bit heartless if I said I do not feel a little bit sad. Then again, it could be just me being more emotional and sensitive during this period of time. Not to mention that my anger is almost left unchecked during this period. While I try to be calm, I need a month to berserk for a while so as to maintain my sanity for the next one year.

    After all, the trend had been that the world turns against me during the month of June. 

    My armour is like paper, do not kill me please.
    A lot of bad stuff had happened this month, not surprisingly. I am not planning to write those events down either (no point making everyone depressed over stuff to which we have no control over, huh?) and I think it is better to forget such things even occurred in the first place. :P

    Best Friend's Home is Home
    What better than being able to visit my best friend's house after so long? I miss the times when I could stayover for a week at Johnston's house. Come the present, I am now in army and he is University. Even if he is free, most of the time, I am too preoccupied with work to be able to set aside days to stayover. Thus, I was actually glad that I managed to get this time to do some house visit.

    There, I spent the whole morning at the dining table just chatting with him. It really brings back memories of the past where we simply sat in the canteen after school, talking until the early evening.

    As the saying goes, time passes when you are having fun. Before long, it is lunch time. Emelia had woken up and joined us for lunch. After lunch, we went up to the computer room, as so to not disturb Emelia who was studying at the dining table. (After a moment, she started to comment that we were avoiding her, which is of course not true. Hahas!)

    As unexpected as it was, we ended up playing Dragon Nest in the computer room. One reason was because the controllers for Xbox and Wii ran out of battery so we could not play them. To make things interesting and refreshing for us, we tried each other's characters in the game.

    Admittedly, it was my first time trying out the Warrior class in the game. Boy, the playing style for warrior is really different. It was contrast to my archer attacking from far away, away from enemy fire. The first few runs as a warrior was rather chaotic. I found that, as a warrior, you would spam the left mouse button quite badly. Hmm....

    Another class I got to try was the Kali class. Similar to the warrior in the sense that she is also a melee class character, using her requires more hit-and-run tactics.

    Tarots
    Before I end off this post, I also would like to thank the following people for gifting me these presents> :)
    • Keller - Tarot Card Deck

    • Johnston - Razer Mouse (Using now! :)
    • Emelia - Shirt (Thank you! I like it!)
    • Marcus - Phone Accessory with my Korean Name and Artillery Badge
    • Lera - Notebook (Unexpected, I must say)

    "Life is a dream for the wise, a game for the fool, a comedy for the rich, a tragedy for the poor." - Sholom Aleichem